A Letter to my future child

To my future child,

Your future mommy is trying her best to be that someone whom you can look up to.I m still trying not to do anything which I won't want my little ones to do in the future.I will show you the different ways to get what you want but you can always choose how you prefer to do it.I will never tell you only 'what to do' but I will teach you 'how to do' things.I won't tell you the only right way to do things,I will let you find out for urself the "right way" that works for you.I won't freak out when you fell on the floor when your little feet start taking those tiny steps but I will be there clapping for you till you can get back up by yourself.But even if you fail in those little attempts,always remember,mommy will always be there for you.I want you to experience everything,not just being told how to do things without any mistakes.I want you to find that mistakes by yourself,not by being told by others.Only then you can grow,only then you can be wiser.......I will protect you but I won't try to protect you in every steps of your life;I will always teach you how to protect yourself even when I am not around.I will let you take the first bite of everything that taste good as well as bad so that you can know by urself what tastes good and bad.I will love you so much but not to the extent where I will snatch away your freedom n choices(ofcourse bad choices are not allowed😂).I want you to come to me whenever you feel low;I want you to feel like you can tell me everything.I will always be there for you but I will also train you so that you won't always need me.I promise to respect your freedom and wants,but only if it doesn't harm others.I don't just want you to live life,I want you to experience LIFE.I don't just want you to walk in the path I chose for you,I will guide you until you can find your own path which is even better than the one I showed you.I want you to have a happy and carefree childhood,not a restricted one.I want you to respect your elders and everyone around you but I don't want you to lose your own voice in the process.I want you to find out how to live your own life happily but I want you to know that you mustn't anyone in the process.I will never teach you by words,I will always lead you only through the examples set by my actions.I want you to be "the best" only for urself,not for others.I want you to feel that you are the gift of God to me,not a possession of mine.I promise to love you,no matter what.I promise to let you experience everything which I never got the chance to explore.I promise to be always there for you in your good days and even more so in your bad days.I promise to be the best mother you can ever hope for❤